What Is Love?

give away 15 years of ur life to somebody without any expectations then u realise the essence of love..give away ur career and self respect then u realise wht is true love.... give away all ur sweat toiled money to fill the pit that the opposite has created then u realise where ur love stands...love is nothing so easily gained or given..it is a life time process where at every step u give the test of the strength of ur love...where  at every turn u stumble upon hurdles to polish your love more intensely.....so love is not which is easily given away or you easily gained....it is only through the process of sacrificing and testing...that the purest of your heart is evolved to reach the ultimate essence of love which finally mingles with the love of god.